Nov
21
Peace Keeping Tip #3 – 10 Things to Say to Keep the Peace
Filed Under Etiquette, Relationships & Networking
If the tensions of the season interfere with your good cheer, arm yourself with these simple phrases from the Real Simple Magazine story 10 Things to Say to Keep the Peace by family mediator Laurie Puhn. They’ll help you avoid arguments now—and all year long…
Here is peace keeping tip #3…
3. “Would you like my thoughts?” One of the biggest complaints kids have about parents is that they constantly issue orders and judgments. Sometimes this is a parent’s job. But if you are often confronted with an angry response (“Who made you the authority?” or “It’s none of your business”), you might benefit from dialing back. Ask your child if she wants to hear what you have to say. If she says yes, it means she is ready to listen. If she says no, then button your lip. This works for adult family members and coworkers, too.
